‘Oh, That’s Why You Said This’: Katie Miller’s Ex Before Marriage to Stephen Miller Comes Roaring Back After an Old Relationship Resurfaces
Aug 12, 2026
Katie Miller has spent the past several years building a very public life alongside her husband, Stephen Miller.
But a nearly forgotten chapter from her younger days in Washington has suddenly put her past back in the spotlight.
Long before she married Miller, one of President Donald Trump’s
most recognizable advisers, the former Katie Waldman was a 22-year-old intern on Capitol Hill.
Katie Miller’s past resurfaced, exposing an unexpected chapter from her Capitol Hill days before she married Stephen Miller. (Photo by SAUL LOEB/AFP via Getty Images)
A bombshell report suggests that Katie had a romantic relationship with a man now facing intense public scrutiny.
His name has been in recent headlines, and some wonder how much her husband knows about her past.
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Katie reportedly had a relationship with former California congressman Rep. Eric Swalwell years before his political career became embroiled in sexual misconduct allegations.
The unlikely political pairing resurfaced after Sources Say News reported that people connected to him allegedly brought up his past relationship with Miller while fighting the possible release of FBI files tied to his contacts with suspected Chinese intelligence operative Christine Fang.
People broke the story but said they could not independently verify the claim.
But when the story about her relationship with Swalwell started making the rounds, Miller didn’t exactly issue a sweeping denial.
“I was an intern working on Capitol Hill,” Katie wrote on X on Aug. 6.
I was an intern working on Capitol Hill. https://t.co/cafxSo4CzX— Katie Miller (@KatieMiller) August 7, 2026
That short response carried considerably more weight considering what Miller had already said about Swalwell months earlier.
In April, as multiple women publicly accused the former congressman of misconduct — allegations he has denied — Miller suggested that stories about his behavior had circulated around Washington for years.
“As someone who doesn’t normally believe all women, I believe her — and the many lined up behind her,” she wrote. “Eric Swalwell’s behavior was the worst kept secret on Capitol Hill.”
Then came the line that reads differently now: “I’m positive she was not the only intern.”
“Oh, that’s why you said this,” said another curious online follower.
Miller went even further in another lengthy post, saying Swalwell’s alleged behavior was an “open secret” dating back to when she first arrived on Capitol Hill in 2013.
“Women on Capitol Hill knew the type of man Eric was — this has persisted since my early days on the Hill in 2013,” she wrote. “This was an open secret. He was drunk at bars with young women.”
She also accused Washington’s political press corps of sitting on stories about him for years, writing, “They knew. They all knew and they were in on it.”
The resurfaced relationship adds an unexpected twist to Miller’s political biography.
Katie and Swalwell were reportedly both single during their involvement. Swalwell did not marry his wife, Brittany Watts, until 2016, while Miller’s relationship with her future husband was still years away.
So who, if anyone, did Miller date in between? That’s where things get murkier.
I’m so confused. She had an affair with Musk while married to Miller and Miller took her back?This timeline isn’t tracking … pic.twitter.com/pg4ZxwTzXZ— (@dutchessprim) August 10, 2026
Social media users have linked her romantically to former White House Chief Strategist Steve Bannon and tech CEO Elon Musk. However, available reporting does not substantiate either relationship.
There is no verified evidence that Miller dated Bannon, while her documented connection to Musk was professional.
Miller worked closely with the Tesla billionaire through the Department of Government Efficiency. She later left her White House position to work directly for him.
She allegedly told the president that working with his friend was “an honor of a lifetime” and “the most fun [she] ever had at a job.”
Their closeness sparked online chatter, but no credible reports have established a romantic relationship.
This did not stop people from teasing her with the rumors.
“I’m so confused. She had an affair with Musk while married to Miller and Miller took her back? This timeline isn’t tracking,” one person tweeted.
Others wondered, “How does Stephen feel?” and “So you’re not denying the allegations?”
View this post on Instagram A post shared by Katie Miller (@katiemiller)
Katie may have meant well, but one person warned her, “This isn’t the right response to this lol.”
Another person said, “Katie, if your purpose is to deny you had a relationship with Eric, then people understand this tweet as admission.”
The next documented relationship in Miller’s timeline is the one that ultimately led her down the aisle.
Katie and Stephen Miller reportedly crossed paths through mutual contacts in 2018.
At the time, she worked as assistant press secretary for the Department of Homeland Security, while Stephen was already one of the most powerful — and feared — voices in Trump’s inner circle.
The romance moved fast. Engaged in 2019, married by February 2020 at the Trump International Hotel in Washington, D.C., with Trump himself in attendance. Four kids later, the Millers are still going strong.
‘Oh, That’s Why You Said This’: Katie Miller’s Ex Before Marriage to Stephen Miller Comes Roaring Back After an Old Relationship Resurfaces
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