DEAR ABBY: I work as a sports reporter, and I have been in an on-and-off relationship with my co-worker. We are both out gay men, but I am struggling to figure out how to take our relationship to the next level. We both enjoy going on cute dates at local sporting events and always get excited when t he team puts us on the KissCam. What can I do to convince him that I am boyfriend material and even future husband material? -- LOOKING AHEAD IN INDIANA ...read more read less