DEAR ABBY: After a tumultuous breakup, I reconnected with two men through friends. I’ve known and liked them both for years. One lives in Europe; the other lives here in New York. Both are wonderful, respectful and caring, and I feel beyond lucky. Both say they are in love with me and want to purs ue a serious future. Call me crazy, but I love them both for different reasons. How do I possibly choose? ...read more read less